Kiev demographists and psychologists assert that in Ukraine as well as in Russia the number of lonely women who can’t find a dependable life partner is growing fast. The thing is not only in deficiency of men, but in the loss of many values. Many modern women got disappointed in men and prefer surviving on their own, putting financial as well as domestic problems on their tender shoulders. However, as specialists warn, for a young, beautiful, and successful girl even having a strong wish it is extremely hard to find her second half. It’s almost a lottery. Concurrence here is extremely severe. Contrary to an opinion popular, there are less girls born in Ukraine than boys. It goes about a correlation of about 100 to 106. ‘However, up to 20 there is an equation of the number of men and women. After this age limit there is a visible overbalance to the good of the weaker half of the humanity.
Many Ukrainian men are destroyed by alcohol abuse. A part of them dies in car accidents, or as the result of either fights or armed conflicts. According to experts, all these are the reasons for a mass loneliness of Ukrainian women. ‘Up to the middle age concurrence at the marriage market is becoming very high. That’s why it is becoming harder and harder for ladies at the age from 30 to 40 to find a worthy husband for themselves.
What does every bride from Ukraine dream of seeing in her man?
According to the results of a recent polling held by the pollster in Kiev, the most valuable quality of a man for Ukrainian brides is being sustainable. 31% of those polled feminine respondents mentioned this feature as the most important one for them. In the top ten of men’s qualities found themselves such ones as kindness (17%), intelligence (16%), decency (15%), honesty (14%), manhood (13%), carefulness and respect (12%), working capacity (10%) and responsibility (9%). Ukrainian women also attach importance to faithfulness (8%), cheerful and easy character (6%), absence of bad habits, financial success of a man (5% each). 3% of them value in representatives of the stronger sex politeness, domesticity, generosity, 2% ¬value orderliness, knowing how to be a good family man, equability. At the same time appearance, handsomeness, and attractiveness of a man turned to be for the participants not the most important feature. It was mentioned by only 8% of respondents.
In Ukraine a woman one calls a Lady when one wants to emphasize her superiority in everything, over other girls. She is majestic and splendid, she attracts attention without saucy glances and inspires respect without words. She is one of those women who are envied and admired by other women, and with whom men want to be. She knows what to do in any situation. She is smart and strong, but by her side her beloved one doesn’t feel himself ‘an ordinary man’. He feels himself needed and desired.
Such a woman is a dream of any lonely man. It may sometimes seem unrealizable. But we can assure you that such ladies exist and one can come across them in Kiev. A modern capital girl should always go out and find herself under attentive glances of many acquaintances, colleagues and even enviers. That’s why Kiev women need to always be real ladies. Though the times of knights, dragons, and real ladies have long ago passed, and financial and social status problems dominate, in Ukraine there still are brides who are worthy to be wives of lords.
Manners, etiquette, tactfulness, and knowing how to behave are eternal. Elegance always charms and inspires respect. These rules of behavior are characteristic of many Kiev women. In the majority of cases it is conditioned by social origin, classic spiritual and family values. The main mission of women is to be wives, mothers, family goddesses. In Kiev women it is combined with natural beauty, sophisticated charm and wonderful attractiveness.
These ladies seem to have always to be happy and create a family. However, as a rule, such Ukrainian girls are lonely. And the reason of this loneliness are men. It is a fear of very close and trust relationships with Ukrainian men not used to value women. Every Ukrainian woman always wants to be defended. A man, instead of supporting them tries to find a support.
Beauty, education, woman’s wisdom, style, and spirituality are apt to almost every Ukrainian woman. This list of features can be valued not by many Ukrainian men. And very few of them are able to secure them with a good living standards.
Probably, that’s the reason why in Ukrainian migration process a considerable number is formed by lonely Kiev ladies, searching for happiness in marriage with foreign men.